Hello! I am excited that we are on the fourth lap of this series. We have looked at what not do when you find out that your spouse is cheating. I have also shown you the causes and symptoms of infidelity. Now, let’s look at the practical aspect of what you need to do in order to get your spouse back – Quickly!

I call it the Spiritual Approach.

From where I come from, majority of home breakers are often diabolic. They consult herbalists and receive power from satan, while some of them are indoctrinated and introduced into shrines. As a woman for instance, you don’t just see the woman with your husband and then confront her, saying things like:  “Leave my husband alone.” One look from her eyes could tear you to pieces— if you are not spiritually shielded.

So, the first thing you do is to go and “cook yourself” at the place of prayer.  Yes pray J! I know you may not be the ‘praying type’ as many like to say. But you want to get your spouse back right? Then gear up because, dear friend, most battles are won in the spiritual realm.

That is why you need to take care of the situation in the realm of the spirit. You need to make sure that the Jericho walls fall; that every mountain is made plain and the valleys are filled up.

Now, here is how to handle things in the spiritual level:

  1. Mount up a Prayer Watch

At that point where you are ready to “tear someone apart,” because you are angry over the whole issue of the interference in your home, what you should do is to mount up a prayer watch.

You can pray with or without the full details of the person’s name but if and when you have gotten the name of the person who is tearing your home apart, then it is time to take that information before God. Maybe you got the intruder’s picture or contact from the internet, via your spouse’s social media touch points like facebook or maybe through phone contacts, etc, download it and print it out.

After that, get a list of passages or Scriptures from the Bible. They help to give you a legal right over your spouse while you pray. Verses like:

 “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.”

                                                                  Genesis 1:27 (KJV)

Your prayer strategy with this Scripture for instance, is to declare that, God created you as the female for your mate (your husband) and therefore, every other female (woman) should go and look for her own male. Whoever it is, whether it’s a man or a woman that seems to be the intruder, take the person’s name before God in prayers.

Get the information of such an intruder who wants to tear down your home, set a prayer watch, it could be midnights prayers or daytime prayers, take time out to really pray. If the atmosphere in your bedroom is not conducive enough, look for a better place where you can express yourself. Make sure that you are consistent on the prayer watch on that issue.

Take this with you: You are not at the prayer watch to cry, but to declare with authority!

Make bold declarations such as: “I take back my spouse, I didn’t marry him/her to share with another person.” God is not moved by your tears but by your Word-based, calculated intercession.

Go ahead and take your spouse back at the place of prayer!


If you have not given your Life to the Lord Jesus Christ, it is important that you do so now because, that is your first step towards taking back your spouse from the stranger; and sustaining your home.

Lift your voice and say the following prayer:

“Lord, I am sorry for all my sins and all that I have done wrong, please forgive me. I am sorry for every way that I might have mismanaged my home, I turn to You now for mercy. By Your grace Lord, I will live a life of righteousness and integrity, a life that will be pleasing to You. I receive You now into my life, in JESUS NAME”


If you have given your life to The Lord Jesus Christ before but you have backslidden, then pray this prayer:

“Lord, today I rededicate my life to You. I’m sorry for going back on my words and vows that I made to You initially. I am sorry for every way that I might have abused the privilege that You gave to me as a married man/woman. Henceforth, I promise to live a life of modesty and integrity. I make a determination to live for You. I let go of every bad past as I yield myself totally to You, in Jesus Name.